Love is too big of an emotion to expect to only be able to feel it for one person. There are many types of love. I have been married for, well lets just say almost 2 decades and can tell you that sometimes you have to CHOOSE to love someone for a bit (b/c you may not always like them – ha!) It’s important to remember that the same is always true for the other person too. By hanging in there through the rainbows and mud puddles, not giving up on each other, and realizing that you both have survived each others flaws and imperfections, broken AND mended each others hearts… well thats when you look over and say “Now THAT is my true best friend.” That’s real true married love. It takes time and a real commitment. Sometimes folks just throw in the towel it seems like, and usually it’s over unmet expectations of some sort. There is other kinds of love…. All love is important and has a place. We learn from every relationship we have.. romantic or not. At least we should. That’s how we decide what is BS, what really matters… and what is just “fluff”. Enjoy all of them!